Community Guidelines
Last updated: July 27, 2026
Be real
One profile, your real name, your own recent photos, your true age. Impersonation, catfishing, or misrepresenting yourself — including your relationship status — is grounds for removal. Every member is ID-verified; keep your profile worthy of that.
Money never moves between members
This is the club's founding rule. Never request, offer, or accept money, gifts of monetary value, or “arrangements” of any kind from another member — on Tabled or off it. Sugar-dating, escorting, compensated companionship, and commercial solicitation of members have zero tolerance here: one report, investigation, and permanent removal. If anyone asks you for money, report it — that person is not here for what you're here for.
Respect the table
No harassment, hate, or cruelty — in chat, at dinner, or after. A polite decline is final; pursuing someone after a no is harassment. Treat venue staff as well as you treat your date; partner venues report conduct to us. Disagreement about chemistry is life; disrespect is a violation.
Show up
Confirmed dates are commitments. Cancel within the stated window if plans change; a no-show costs your stake and, repeated, your membership. Chronic late cancellations are treated as no-shows.
Privacy is mutual
Profiles, photos, matchmaker notes, and conversations are shared with you in confidence. Do not screenshot, repost, or share other members' information anywhere. Who you saw, picked, or dined with stays private — that discretion is why the club works. Public disclosure of another member's presence on Tabled is a violation.
No commercial use
Membership is for dating, not marketing. No promotion, recruiting, fundraising, or selling to members. Tabled creator partners are the only exception, operate under written agreements, and always disclose their partnership.
Reporting & enforcement
Report any concern to hello@tabled.club — reports are confidential and reviewed by a human. Enforcement ranges from warning to permanent removal without refund of membership fees, and we cooperate with law enforcement where conduct may be criminal. Safety-related reports (threats, exploitation, anyone under 18) are escalated immediately.